Growing up, I was fortunate to have a father like Khalique Ibrahim Khalique (February 1, 1926 – September 29, 2006) who had a significant impact on my life. His strong values, especially his commitment to doing what was right, his honesty, and his deep sense of responsibility towards others, shaped my character.

He was someone who never compromised on integrity, always prioritizing the greater good over personal gains. His actions and words continue to remind me of the importance of living with purpose and compassion. His work, both in his professional and personal lives, touched many, and his legacy continues to inspire me to contribute positively to the world, just as he did.

Abbu, as I called him, filled our home with wisdom, creativity, and kindness. He was more than just a father — he was a friend, mentor, and guide. Despite his busy professional life, he always made time for the family, showing us through his actions the value of honesty, empathy, and resilience. He taught us to face challenges with strength, to treat others with kindness, and to always do what is right. His presence brought warmth and inspiration, and his lessons shaped the person I am today.

Besides, he had a deep love for storytelling, and he shared his stories through discussions and documentary films. For him, these films were not just about entertainment — they were a way to educate people and make them think. His documentaries explored culture, history, personalities, and important social issues, often challenging the way people saw the world. His film on the life of poet Mirza Ghalib was banned in Pakistan during Gen Ziaul Haq’s tenure, as it was deemed controversial, but that did not stop him from using his work to spark conversations and inspire change. He wanted his films to encourage people to see things from new perspectives, and through his work, he touched many lives, leaving a lasting impact with his powerful messages and thoughtful storytelling.

He once mentioned that the truth requires a voice, and at times, that voice must travel great distances to be heard. Those words stay with me, reminding me to always stick to my beliefs. Despite his intellect and creativity, Abbu was a humble person. He never cared about fame or recognition. His focus was always on making a positive difference. I remember him spending long evenings having deep conversations with friends, colleagues, and even strangers. He had an incredible ability to listen and offer wise advice. But what really made him a role model to me was his moral compass. He believed in fairness, justice, and the courage to stand up for what is right, regardless of the consequences. He always taught me to speak out, even in difficult situations.

Abbu always taught us to dream big but reminded us to stay grounded. He often said dreams are wings, but values are the ground to return to. Those words have guided me in everything I do — from my career to my personal life.

Even now, I often think about the lessons I learned from him. His life was proof that one person’s commitment and integrity can create a change and inspire others. I try to live by the same values he did, knowing that the best way to honor his memory is by carrying his principles forward.

Although Abbu is no longer with us, his spirit lives on through his work, his values, and the many lives he touched. To me, he was a symbol of hope, a role model, and a reminder that a life well-lived makes the world a better place.

خلیق آؤ چلیں بزمِ مہ گساراں میں

دراز شام کی تاریکیوں کے سائےہوئے

The writer is a seasoned journalist and a communications professional. He can be reached at tariqkik@gmail.com.